WAYS TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH YOU
1. BE PEACEFUL
People find themselves coming back to where they find peace
2. MEET YOUR SPOUSE’S NEEDS
When your spouse knows that from you, their sexual and emotional needs are met, they will keep coming back
3. BE APPRECIATIVE
Celebrate your spouse, show that you value him/her. People go where they are celebrated, not tolerated
4. ADD VALUE
When your spouse is with you, let him/her leave better, wiser, more refreshed, lighter, happier than they were before. Be that person who adds value to your spouse’s purpose and quality of day
5. DO NOT BE JUDGEMENTAL
Refrain from being one who makes conclusive statements such as “You always do this and that” or looking at your spouse differently when he/she does something that doesn’t sit right with you or opens up to you about something unpleasant. People avoid environments of judgment
6. BE GOOD AT TOUCHING
Learn how to touch your spouse, how he/she loves being held. Your spouse will keep coming for the touch
7. AVOID FIGHTS
Have control over your temper, know how to deescalate things. Not every disagreement should result into a fight. Avoid drama
8. DON’T COMPLAIN YOUR SPOUSE IS NOT SPENDING TIME WITH YOU
The mistake many make is to attack and complain to their spouse about how he/she no longer makes time. This pushes your spouse away instead of inviting your spouse
9. TALK ABOUT WHAT HE/SHE LIKES
Learn your spouse’s favourite topics and engage. It will keep you from being boring
10. BE FUN
Don’t take life too seriously, don’t suck the air in the room, don’t be negative. Respond to your spouse’s naughtiness, flirting and playful nature. Fun is inviting
11. BE A GOOD LISTENER
People go where they feel heard. Don’t dominate conversations. Show your spouse his/her thoughts, opinions and stories matter
12. COMMUNICATE THAT YOU MISS YOUR SPOUSE
Let your spouse know how great a time you two have together. It will make your spouse feel important
13. BE MISSABLE
Create a climate that your spouse will want to enjoy, not one your spouse will try to evade or pass
14. LOOK GOOD AND SMELL GOOD
Have an appeal that makes your spouse come close
We celebrate your union!
Culled by PST ABRAHAM JOHN OJIEFOH from the Facebook, written by Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde; dated 19/12/2023